I used to think it was cute when I was out and guys would comment on their finding me attractive. But now I’ve realized how stupid it is. I don’t want to be liked for the way I look anymore. I don’t want to be hit on because some guy just wants some “gash” for the night. I want someone who likes the way I talk, and the embarrassing things I say, and the silly facial expressions I make.
Having said that, is monogamy even possible? Sometimes I think it’s so unnatural. And I find myself wondering if guys even see the point in having a girlfriend these days when one night stands are so easy to come by.
Something that starts in heaven, and ends up as a relationship status on Facebook.
If one is the loneliest number, as the song rightly tells me so, then marriage will not save you from your loneliness. Because two persons are just one more person than one. People who marry because they fear being ‘forever alone’ need to realise that we are born alone and die alone. (You know, this is sounding really morbid but that wasn’t my intention.)
I’ve always wanted to revolutionize modern marriage and begin this thing where two couples get together and share a home. You’d never get lonely when your spouse was away, and you could play lots of group board games/have dinner parties, and your kids could chat together. But, there’s always that fear that your friend would hit on your wife or husband. And then you’d find them in bed together. Which isn’t very nice.